Coaching is a process of learning and skill development. It involves changing things that aren't working. Change is usually difficult. It can be scary. At yet, without change, nothing changes!
If your application is approved, I will work as your guide. I will give you my full attention. I will listen to you. I will not judge you and I will not tell you what to do.
My job is to help you get where you want to go and do what you choose to do. To help you uncover and use your strengths and skills to get you closer to where you want to be.
You will be setting the goals, you will be making the decisions, you will be responsible for the actions you decide to practice, and you will be the one accountable for your actions!
I am not here to help you try make a certain amount or type of sleep happen. You already know from experience that trying to control sleep only makes it more difficult.
I am not here to help you try to permanently delete the difficult thoughts and feelings associated with insomnia. You already know from experience that the more you try to fight or avoid them, the more powerful and influential they become.
And, I am not here to solve your problems for you — my job is to help you solve your problems. You are the expert on you. I am not here to fix you because you are not broken!
I am here to help you explore and commit to actions (something you can control) that will move you away from struggling with sleep (and the difficult thoughts and feelings that can come with insomnia) so you can move toward the life you want to live.
When there is less struggle, you will be better able to do things that matter to you, you will be better able to focus on where you are and what you are doing, and sleep will have the best opportunity to take care of itself.
The objective is for you to live the life you want to live, independently of sleep and even in the presence of difficult or uncomfortable thoughts and feelings. And, you will get there through your ongoing practice of committed and meaningful action.
Since you are responsible for making change happen, there is no money-back guarantee and there are no refunds. For coaching to be effective, you need to be 100% "all-in".