Activities for 3 am.

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  • #78062
    Steve200
    ✘ Not a client

      I sleep well for the first 3 or 4 hours, but then really struggle.
      I also struggle with knowing what to do at 3 am other than switch my laptop on which i am sure is the wrong thing to do.
      Any ideas on how to occupy oneself until tiredness returns?

      #78175
      Scott
      Mentor

        Hello and welcome!

        When you wake after 3 to 4 hours of sleep, why do you think you find it hard to fall back to sleep? Waking during the night is normal but most people don’t realize they wake. Our reaction to nighttime wakefulness can determine how quickly we return to sleep. If we struggle and try to avoid wakefulness, it can make sleep more difficult. When you wake, do you become anxious or are you relaxed while lying in bed?

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        #78181
        Steve200
        ✘ Not a client

          I try…and relax, focus on breathing etc….but can’t help but want to get back to sleep…it is very ingrained…..

          #78189
          Steve200
          ✘ Not a client

            Sometimes torn between two different schools of thought, one, get up do something etc, go back to bed, two- stay in bed relax…..

            #78202
            Scott
            Mentor

              If lying in bed frustrated isn’t comfortable for you, you might consider engaging in something more pleasant but not stimulating (listening to a podcast, reading a book, drawing, etc). If you try to avoid or fight with nighttime awakenings, your mind can learn that these awakenings are a danger to you so it transitions into protection mode. Are you sensing that you’re placing undue pressure on yourself to fall asleep when these awakenings happen?

              If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.

              The content of this post is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, disorder, or medical condition. It should never replace any advice given to you by your physician or any other licensed healthcare provider. Insomnia Coach LLC offers coaching services only and does not provide therapy, counseling, medical advice, or medical treatment. All content is provided “as is” and without warranties, either express or implied.

              #78217
              Steve200
              ✘ Not a client

                I do put some pressure on myself… although last night I really tried to just be…. lying And enjoying just that,no pressure. Difficult to do.
                At times I watch laptop…bad Idea right?

                Cheers
                Steve

                #78292
                Scott
                Mentor

                  If we’re following a sleep hygiene regimen, I’d encourage another activity instead of watching videos on a laptop as the blue light from it could be an issue. When I struggled with insomnia, I used to daydream of my favorite vacation I’ve taken or wish I could take as an activity, which helped alleviate the pressure I imposed on myself to fall asleep. Are you following a sleep window consistently?

                  If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.

                  The content of this post is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, disorder, or medical condition. It should never replace any advice given to you by your physician or any other licensed healthcare provider. Insomnia Coach LLC offers coaching services only and does not provide therapy, counseling, medical advice, or medical treatment. All content is provided “as is” and without warranties, either express or implied.

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