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    Prince58
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      Hello,
      I’m new in this forum.
      Since I remember myself, sleep wasn’t good for me. The hardest thing is falling back to sleep after waking up at night. And this happens al least twice every night. I wake up and then thoughts start running through my mind, then I get angry at myself, so more thoughts are created – which lowers the chances of falling back to sleep.
      lately I tried yoga-nidra, and it helps. sometimes.
      hope to get some insights here at the forum 🙂

      #54171
      Scott
      Mentor

        Hi @Prince58,

        It’s not uncommon for everyone to wake during the night, usually when you’re transitioning from one sleep phase to another. What is it about wakefulness that gives you anxiety? You’re absolutely right though – worrying about sleep and troubling thoughts about being awake makes sleep even more difficult. Have you thought about stopping the struggle with those unhelpful thoughts and creating space for them to exist instead? Thoughts don’t make sleep impossible for us, it’s our belief in them that does though. Thoughts are not truths and are mostly unhelpful but they love attention and the more we try to avoid or struggle with them, the more frequent and stronger they usually become.

        Sleep doesn’t reward hard work and effort so any effort we make to sleep heightens our awareness of our sleep issue. Although it’s very relaxing, I wonder if the yoga nidra could be a sleep effort instead of a relaxation method simply to relax?

        Hope that helps.
        Scott J

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        #54181
        Prince58
        ✘ Not a client

          Thanks Scott.
          You’re absolutely right.
          Lately, I have tried a different approach and started to surrender to the cycle of thoughts instead of resisting them.
          It’s, of course, a whole theory 🙂
          Thanks for reminding me to try and stick to this method 🙂

          #54185
          Scott
          Mentor

            I’m looking forward to hearing your progress!

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            The content of this post is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, disorder, or medical condition. It should never replace any advice given to you by your physician or any other licensed healthcare provider. Insomnia Coach LLC offers coaching services only and does not provide therapy, counseling, medical advice, or medical treatment. All content is provided “as is” and without warranties, either express or implied.

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