Hi, my name is Jennifer and I’ve been struggling with sleep for as long as I can remember. I’ve been off all sleep meds for a year now, but still struggle almost every day. My energy is low, I have headaches, anxiety, brain fog, and physical stress. I find it hard to live my life.
Sleep supplements tend to have the opposite effect on me keeping me wide awake all night. I’ve recently purchased and Oura ring to track my sleep. It usually says I had optimal rest but I still feel awful. I fall asleep quickly, but wake up a lot throughout the night. I don’t have a lot of REM sleep and I think my light sleep is very light because even with 8 hours I don’t feel rested at all. I have a few days here and there where I feel good and am hopeful things are turning around, but then I go right back to being in pain and exhausted. I keep going to work everyday, but I don’t have any enjoyment and am not reaching my full potential because of how I feel. I don’t make plans with friends for this same reason.
I’ve been working with an alternative medicine doctor and have done every test available for my hormones, minerals, gut health, neurotransmitters, etc. There are things in addressing to have my body more in balance, but I can sleep good sometimes so I know I’m capable of doing it. I would love to be able to do it more nights than not. 2-3 a week just isn’t cutting it. Coffee makes me feel worse and I’m not sure if others struggle with tension headaches after a bad night of rest.
Hoping to find answers here. Thank you.