You fit the model for insomnia pretty much perfectly, @sleepyone — and this is encouraging because it shows that your insomnia isn’t unique or unusual, and so it can be addressed!
Some of us are more predisposed to temporary sleep disruption — we might, for example, be more predisposed to stress, worry, or anxiety, or be very health-conscious/health focussed. When a specific event happens (for example, an illness) it might then trigger some sleep disruption.
So far, so normal!
Usually, sleep gets right back on track all by itself once the initial trigger has been resolved (for example, when we recover from an illness).
If it doesn’t, it’s almost always because the way we think about sleep changes — we might now pay a lot more attention to sleep, spend a lot of time thinking about sleep, start worrying about sleep).
We might also start to implement behaviors to improve our sleep (experimenting with different supplements and medications, spending more time in bed, napping, monitoring for sleep/the effects of sleep, modifying our days, etc).
Unfortunately, all these quite understandable thoughts and behaviors we implement in a bid to improve our sleep actually have the opposite effect and perpetuate the sleep disruption, turning it into a longer-term problem. This happens because these thoughts and behaviors can weaken our biological sleep drive, disrupt the body clock, and increase arousal.
So, you will almost certainly find it helpful to identify and tackle these thoughts and behaviors — and perhaps the best way to do that is through the implementation of evidence-based cognitive and behavioral techniques.
I hope this helps!
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