Hello Andrea and welcome to the forum! I am yet to come across someone with chronic insomnia who found sleep hygiene helpful — it often does little more than add more rules and rituals that can make things more difficult.
Ultimately, the way past insomnia is a complete willingness to experience insomnia. Easier said than done though, right? It takes practice to build skill in genuine willingness — and I think it starts by responding to wakefulness (and all the difficult thoughts and feelings that can come with it) in a more workable way.
That more workable way might involve acknowledging, observing, and allowing yourself to experience wakefulness (and any associated thoughts and feelings) without trying to fight or avoid all that difficult stuff. After all, it’s the fight — the struggle — that keeps insomnia alive and can make it so much more difficult.
I hope there’s something useful here!
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