Hello, it has been just over 7 weeks since I finished my 8wk CBTi course with Martin. I had been suffering with insomnia for about 20 months, the last 5 of those were horrendous, I would sometimes go a few nights together without any sleep at all. It all started with a stressful time I went through and when my sleep was affected, anxiety came which of course perpetuated the problem!
I found Martin’s site after doing numerous searches online, I was in desperate need, I had tried a lot of different supplements along with the occasional sleeping tablet (could open a chemist) however, whilst some of these worked for a few nights they soon lost their effectiveness and I was back to searching online for the lastest supplement. Good ‘sleep hygiene’ didn’t help at all either!
I signed up with Martin in early July and right from the very beginning I felt empowered, even though it is tough, it is a good tough because after a while you do see results. I started to see results about 3-4wks in then really turned the corner about 5-6 weeks, I did think sometimes ‘I might be the one that this doesn’t work for’, however, Martin always encouraged me and I kept on, staying up late till 12 and getting up at 6am every morning. I also did get up through the night when I couldn’t sleep until I felt sleepy again, sometimes I would get up many times.
It has been about 9-10 weeks now since I turned that corner with greatly improved sleep.
I did have 5 days in a row a few weeks ago where I had some rough nights, it started with bad headaches and then I started to panic a bit because I thought the sleepless nights were coming back, but I managed to pull myself together practice what I had learnt and after a couple of nights my sleep has been great ever since, so in a way I was glad I went through that because it reinforced to me that these techniques that Martin teaches do work!!
I average around about 6.5 to 7.5 hours of sleep a night. I only go to bed when I am yawning and tired and always try to get up at the same time each morning.
I’m so very thankful to be sleeping again, I have always believed we are created by God to sleep, it is as natural as breathing, however, things go wonky sometimes and unfortunately anxiety seems to be the biggest driver. I overcame the anxiety a few ways, by facing up to it and embracing the fear and the CBTi techniques did empower me because I believed that they work and I just did them almost like a robot sometimes!
I hope this encourages someone, I sure read a lot of success stories along the way that helped me immensely.