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    1949Molly
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      When I first started my current combo of meds (2 sleeping pills and 1 anti-depressant) it was like a miracle. I could look forward to having a really good sleep night after night. But now years later I always get some sleep (thank God!) but its never enough. My only option is to try something else, I guess. I'm currently trying to just accept that I'm only going to get a few hours of sleep. Even when my current worries are not on my mind, I still only get those same few hours. This morning I woke up (at 3am of course) so depressed eventhough things are going OK in my life.

      #12687
      cherrychapstik
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        Have you talked to a therapist?

        #12688
        Martin Reed
        ★ Admin

          Do you think you're building up a tolerance to the meds you're on, or do you think there's another reason behind the sleep getting progressively worse? A therapist may be a good option as cherrychapstik suggests. Have you investigated cognitive behavioral therapy or tried finding a sleep specialist?

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          #12689
          1949Molly
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            'cherrychapstik' wrote on '17:

            Have you talked to a therapist?

            Thanks for your reply. Contrary to what most people believe in Canada seeing a therapist would come completely out of my pocket – which I can't afford. Instead, I made an appointment with my family doctor to see what she says tomorrow. Right now I'm taking 2 -2mg Ativans = 4mgAtivan just on the nights that I don't have to work the next day.

            #12690
            1949Molly
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              'Martin' wrote on '17:

              Do you think you're building up a tolerance to the meds you're on, or do you think there's another reason behind the sleep getting progressively worse? A therapist may be a good option as cherrychapstik suggests. Have you investigated cognitive behavioral therapy or tried finding a sleep specialist?

              Martin,

              I think primarily it's just becoming tolerant to the meds I've been taking for years. They worked fine for such a long time. There is a lot of psychological stuff going on too.On my days off I just “get out of Dodge!!!”. This may sound really boring to everyone but my favorite thing to do is to take the bus (I'm a delivery driver and frankly HATE to drive)and go out to our university for a hamburger. This allows me to feel “free” at least for a few hours.

              #12691
              Martin Reed
              ★ Admin

                Doesn't sound boring at all. If you had been a member here for longer you'd know that for many years growing up, I wanted to be a bus driver!!

                If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.

                The content of this post is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, disorder, or medical condition. It should never replace any advice given to you by your physician or any other licensed healthcare provider. Insomnia Coach LLC offers coaching services only and does not provide therapy, counseling, medical advice, or medical treatment. All content is provided “as is” and without warranties, either express or implied.

                #12692
                christine9774
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                  Hi Molly

                  I totally understand how you feel, I've been dealing with the same thing. I hope things go well with your doctor and she can help you. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you! 🙂

                  #12693
                  1949Molly
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                    'Martin' wrote on '19:

                    Doesn't sound boring at all. If you had been a member here for longer you'd know that for many years growing up, I wanted to be a bus driver!!

                    Martin,

                    I drive a truck and deliver radiators. The driving part is OK but the warehouse work is hard for me sometimes. My other workers are good about helping out, though. What makes me mad though is that I have a BA from UCLA and when I had to go back to work a few years ago I couldn't find any work that was in any way related to the work I'd done in the past. So for now I just need to try and stick with my current job.

                    #12694
                    1949Molly
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                      'christine9774' wrote on '19:

                      Hi Molly

                      I totally understand how you feel, I've been dealing with the same thing. I hope things go well with your doctor and she can help you. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you! 🙂

                      My family doctor changed the dosage for one of my meds. I'll start it tonight. She also gave me some interesting info. A few sites say that anti-depressants make insomnia worse. She told me that some anti-depressants do but the one I'm taking doesn't. I'm so tired my eyes look like 2 pi.. holes in the snow and I have to go to work tomorrow. I can't allow myself to be too hopeful.

                      #12695
                      cherrychapstik
                      ✘ Not a client
                        '1949Molly' wrote on '20:

                        My family doctor changed the dosage for one of my meds. I'll start it tonight. She also gave me some interesting info. A few sites say that anti-depressants make insomnia worse. She told me that some anti-depressants do but the one I'm taking doesn't. I'm so tired my eyes look like 2 pi.. holes in the snow and I have to go to work tomorrow. I can't allow myself to be too hopeful.

                        What time of day do you take your meds? Generally those that worsen insomnia only do that if you take them right before bed. I had that problem with Cymbalta for the first 3 days I took it. I switched to taking it in the morning and have not had one since!

                        #12696
                        cherrychapstik
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                          'cherrychapstik' wrote on '20:

                          What time of day do you take your meds? Generally those that worsen insomnia only do that if you take them right before bed. I had that problem with Cymbalta for the first 3 days I took it. I switched to taking it in the morning and have not had one since!

                          And by “one” I meant a sleeping problem due to my meds…. Bwahaha. I hate bad grammar.

                          #12697
                          1949Molly
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                            'christine9774' wrote on '19:

                            Hi Molly

                            I totally understand how you feel, I've been dealing with the same thing. I hope things go well with your doctor and she can help you. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you! 🙂

                            Christine9774,

                            My family doctor recommended that I double the dose of my anti-depressant for a month to see it that helps. It started slow at first (marginally better night 1, then marginally better than that, etc. Last night (night 4) I actually got 8 hours of sleep. 3 different parts of the night. Bahtroom break – back to sleep, another bathroom break – back to sleep. I thought that would be it for the night but I went back to sleep again. I feel “NORMAL” and will see how it goes at work tomorrow.

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