Hello Kim and welcome to the forum — it’s good to have you here 🙂
Like many others, you’ve tried a CBT-I approach and found it to be harsh and inflexible. It even seemed to create more difficulty. You aren’t alone! A CBT-I approach isn’t for everyone.
ACT-I is a newer approach to insomnia and it’s the focus of my paid six-week course. As you pointed out, it is often described as a gentler, kinder, more flexible — and more workable — way of dealing with insomnia and all the difficult thoughts and feelings that can come with it.
Your experience with medication is not unique or unusual. Many people find medication for sleep to be ineffective. Perhaps your experience is a reminder that sleep seems to be out of your direct control — and so the more you try to (understandably) make a certain amount or type of sleep happen, the more stuck you might feel.
I’m looking forward to having you on the course and seeing you in the client forums after the holiday!
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