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Topic: 1 year later I got better
I know what it’s like to feel like you don’t get a single minute of sleep at night. Stories of four…
I know what it’s like to feel like you don’t get a single minute of sleep at night. Stories of four-hour sleeps sound luxurious and you wonder how you are surviving on not a single second.
I tried ‘everything’. From lavender and CBD oil, to acupuncture and CBT. I thought I would be an insomniac for the rest of my life. I stumbled across stories of people who hadn’t slept well for 20 years convinced it was me. It was robbing me of joy from my life because I felt like I was dragging myself through the days and social situations.
Knowing that psychologically I was contributing to the illness didn’t help. I felt powerless.
At the time I thought it was the insomnia causing my anxiety and perpetuating itself, now I know I’d got used to such high stress levels in my life that I didn’t recognise that I was so highly stressed it was interfering with my sleep. I didn’t like my job but as a career-minded person I had suppressed my dislike, determined to think positive. Ultimately I felt trapped. Here are my top tips to curing insomnia and how I got better eventually.
1. First, some reassurance
I know how desperate insomnia can feel so I want to promise you that you will get better. You are not the exception, you don’t have a weird medical condition that is inhibiting your ability to sleep, and it won’t take you 20 years.
2. Change your environment
I had spent so many sleepless nights in the flat that I rented that I grew to feel anxious being there. My insomnia started to get better when I moved in with a friend and had a completely different bedroom to go to. It’s not possible for everyone, but if you have the option of going to stay in a friendly home for a while, I’d recommend it. If not, try moving your furniture around. Start afresh.
3. Of all the alternative and relaxing remedies I tried, the only one that helped me at all was very hard reflexology – it was a very relaxing foot massage and I was completely sceptical that it would help but it did.
5. Rid yourself of the nagging stress in your life. There is probably something you are unhappy with. It could be your relationship, for me it was the job. Try and save some money if you can, consider what it would take to make the change that you need to. I thought my job was bearable but when I quit it I began sleeping again.
6. Get some sunshine
Low seratonin (the happy hotmone) is a cause of bad sleep. Therefore, even if you’re exhausted, try and sit in the warm sunlight for a while. It might not feel like it works on day one, but think of marginal gains.
7. Download a podcast
Find a podcast you genuinely like and listen to it. Listen to it when you’re in bed if you feel like it.
8. Get a hot water bottle or electric blanket
This cosy trick is soothing.
9. Set yourself smaller goals in the day
It’s enough to just get your washing done. It’s enough to do half of the project you’re working on. Don’t overstretch yourself. Even if you have room to do more, cut down your routine for a bit.
20. Get custom-made earplugs
The best £70 I’ve ever spent in specsavers. They take two weeks to order and they fit very snugly inside your ear so they stay in, there’s no discomfort and there’s no noise at all. Whether or not you’re in a noisy environment, these are your secret weapon as they create a complete cocoon. I put them in when I’m reading in bed. I even wore them and turned my podcast up, just so they were a little bit of comfort in my nightly routine.
You will be ok. Your body is getting 20 seconds of sleep in every minute, you just don’t know it.
Topic: Mid night awakening..
Since I was pregnant in 2017, I first started to experience chronic awakening around 2am and then …
Since I was pregnant in 2017, I first started to experience chronic awakening around 2am and then having trouble going back to sleep. I have tried a variety of sleep aids, lavendar, magnesium, yoga, warm bath, acupuncture. . On really bad nights or when I have an important work meeting the next day, I take melatonin or nyquil. Doctor prescribed zopliclone, but it hasn’t adjusted the wakening.
On good days, it takes about 2 hours to go back to sleep . On bad days, I just cant go back to sleep and i end up staying up from 2am
Anyone else going through this?Topic: I've tried everything
I’m 40 years old and have had chronic insomnia for 15 years. It started when i graduated col…
I’m 40 years old and have had chronic insomnia for 15 years. It started when i graduated college and moved across the country to start my career. It started slow, and then progressed to the point where it’s now this dark shadow following me everywhere I go, and influences every decision to make. I no longer travel or go out of town for a night or two, let guys sleep over or sleep over at anyone’s house, even close friends. I think about sleep and not being able to sleep constantly, but especially at night, to the point where i can’t hang out with people past 8 or 8:30 because i have to start my sleep routine. Insomnia has hijacked sarah and i am a shell of who i used to be. i’ve tried so many anti-anxiety meds and antidepressants, as well as almost all prescription and non prescription medications, homeopathy, 2 rounds of CBT-i, hypnotherapy, acupuncture, regular talk therapy, a sleep study, etc. I had or have other health issues as well…….a progressive nerve disease, breast cancer, and migraines, yet if i had to choose one to cure, it would be my insomnia. I’m hoping to find people to connect with and support each other.
Topic: No longer an insomniac
Hi. I just want to share good news that I have recovered from insomnia. Just July I started to lose…
Hi. I just want to share good news that I have recovered from insomnia.
Just July I started to lose my sleep due to a situation at work. Within one month I lost the ability to sleep altogether and had many nights of no sleep at all.
Prior to this I’ve always slept nearly 8 hours solid every night so losing my sleep so quickly had an awful impact on me.
I got anxiety, depression and had several panic attacks.
The doctor prescribed several different pills which didn’t work and we eventually I settled on zopliclone and an anti anxiety tablet which together helped me to fall asleep.
However, even with sleeping pill I had still many nights of no or just 2 hours sleep. I couldn’t understand why I was suffering so badly. Despite this I still managed to go to work, have a social life and look after the kids. Don’t know how I did it as I had no energy and low mood and I felt like I was living in a bubble.
I also tried hypnotherapy, acupuncture and counseling but nothing really worked.
After 5 months on the pills, my therapist told me that I had to love myself again and get out of the negative thinking cycle that I was in. So I repeated positive affirmations everyday all day long.
Within one month I came if the pills altogether and now, 6 months on I sleep approx. 6.5 hours every night. I feel like old me as I have energy and the bubble has gone. Anxiety and depression also gone.
Martin was great and very supportive and his CBT techniques do work so please do try it.
For me though, it was a mental problem and once I overcame those I recovered. It’s taken a long time but I don’t think it’s something you recover from quickly.
Please remain positive, have faith in your ability to sleep, know that you will get better, never doubt it, relax and try to enjoy life as much as you can.
If you’re newly suffering then rest assured that you can get your sleep back.
Remove any negative thinking in your life of you can because for me that’s what made me lose my sleep and don’t be so harsh on yourself.
I also did meditation every day which helped.
I still don’t sleep as much as much I used to but at least I’m no longer tossing and turning and feel like the old me. With lots of energy. I’m hoping with time that I will be able to sleep nearly 8 hours but I know it’s unlikely.
Please contact me if you’d like to know exactly what I did to recover and I’ll be happy to help.
Good luck all.Topic: Chronic insomnia
I’ve been suffering from bouts of chronic insomnia for the last 15 years. Often there will be…
I’ve been suffering from bouts of chronic insomnia for the last 15 years. Often there will be a trigger – such as getting into a new relationship – but some times (like currently) there is no apparent trigger. I get stuck in a ‘loop’ where I sleep for about 2 hours a night (currently between about 7-9am) which in turn causes horrific generalised anxiety during the day, that them causes more insomnia. I’m currently really struggling with hypnic jerks… every single time I start to fall asleep my body jerks me back awake with a jolt. This happens for hours on end. At the moment I’ve been in the cycle for nearly 2 weeks and most of this time I’m unable to work, as after so much consistent sleep deprivation you really do feel very, very ill. My work are as supportive as they can be but I’m acutely aware that I’m letting people down by not being there. I’ve tried every solution you can possibly think of – sleeping pills years ago (became addicted, bad times), CBT, hypnotherapy, counselling, different sleep courses, Acupuncture, reiki, meditation… you name it, I’ve tried it. Nothing has ever made a difference so I’ve reached a point where I’m trying just to accept that this is part of me and try not to fight it and hate it. It’s hard though. Would love to hear from others who have similar experiences…