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Sorry to hear about your struggle with sleep. How long have you been experiencing difficulty falling asleep? Have you talked to your doctor about the discomfort and tingling in your legs?
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Have you tried cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I)? It addresses the root cause of insomnia (thoughts and behaviors) and doesn’t involve medication.
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Why do you feel you can’t stick to a sleep schedule? What is it about the sleep schedule that you struggle with?
At the current time, how many hours of sleep do you get on an average night? When do you currently go to bed at night and get out of bed to start your day in the morning?
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Welcome to the forum.
It’s actually not unusual for sleep to continue to be disrupted upon retirement — and this is often down to the fact that there’s even less enforced structure or routine in our lives. So, we can easily end up spending more time in bed, spending more time thinking and worrying about sleep, and spending more time being inactive and sedentary. Unfortunately, all these things can perpetuate insomnia.
From your description of your current sleep pattern, it sounds as though you are allotting up to nine hours for sleep — you go to bed around 11:00 PM and get your day started an hour or two after 6:00 AM.
At the same time, it sounds as though you are typically getting around five to six hours of sleep each night — does this sound about right?
If so, you are probably allotting too much time for sleep — and this is one reason why you are spending so much time awake during the night.
I think you would find it helpful to reduce the amount of time you allot for sleep to more closely match your average nightly sleep duration. This will help build sleep drive and reduce the amount of time you spend awake during the night. Observing a regular sleep window will also give you a consistent out of bed time in the morning — and this benefits sleep drive and serves as a strong anchor for your body clock.
Finally, please be reassured that there is no evidence that chronic insomnia causes any health problem whatsoever. You might find my podcast episode on busting sleep and insomnia myths with Dr. Jade Wu helpful.
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You said that you have tried all the techniques on offer but none work — does this include cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) techniques?
Do you still work nights? If not, can you tell us when you usually go to bed at night, when you get out of bed to start your day, and roughly how many hours of sleep you get on an average/typical night?
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This is awesome! Way to go, both of you!
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Let me ask you this, Ellen — when you are in bed wide awake, tossing and turning, is that pleasant? If not, then getting out of bed might be a more appealing (and more constructive) alternative!
Sometimes it can be helpful to expect to be out of bed at night and to plan for this — you could leave the heat on in the living room and keep a little nest ready and waiting for you; maybe a book on a side table, a pile of cushions and blankets, perhaps a thermos with a warm drink, too?
Thank you to everyone who contributed to this topic — lots of excellent support and guidance here!
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
The content of this post is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, disorder, or medical condition. It should never replace any advice given to you by your physician or any other licensed healthcare provider. Insomnia Coach LLC offers coaching services only and does not provide therapy, counseling, medical advice, or medical treatment. All content is provided “as is” and without warranties, either express or implied.
This is great to hear — and the real benefit this time around is that you know all those improvements you are enjoying, and all that sleep you are getting, is being 100% generated by you and you alone. This should fill you with confidence and encourage you to remain committed and keep looking forward! You’ve got this!
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
The content of this post is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, disorder, or medical condition. It should never replace any advice given to you by your physician or any other licensed healthcare provider. Insomnia Coach LLC offers coaching services only and does not provide therapy, counseling, medical advice, or medical treatment. All content is provided “as is” and without warranties, either express or implied.
Welcome to the forum. You mentioned that you have read all the things you should be doing to get a better night’s sleep and you are practicing them all — may I ask what these things are?
When you wake during the night, why do you think you find it hard to fall asleep? Implementing an appropriate sleep window and getting out of bed when struggling with sleep are often good starting points when dealing with fragmented sleep.
I hope this helps.
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
The content of this post is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, disorder, or medical condition. It should never replace any advice given to you by your physician or any other licensed healthcare provider. Insomnia Coach LLC offers coaching services only and does not provide therapy, counseling, medical advice, or medical treatment. All content is provided “as is” and without warranties, either express or implied.
Sleeping pills can’t generate sleep and they don’t get to the root cause of insomnia, so they aren’t a long-term solution for insomnia. If you aren’t keen on the idea of sleeping medication and you are looking for a long-term solution for your insomnia, I’d encourage you to talk to your doctor about cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I).
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
The content of this post is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, disorder, or medical condition. It should never replace any advice given to you by your physician or any other licensed healthcare provider. Insomnia Coach LLC offers coaching services only and does not provide therapy, counseling, medical advice, or medical treatment. All content is provided “as is” and without warranties, either express or implied.
Hello J18 and welcome to the forum. Like many people, you have tried lots of things in a bid to improve your sleep and none of them have worked. That’s normal and to be expected because none of the things you have tried address the root cause of insomnia — the thoughts we have and the behaviors we implement in an attempt to improve our sleep that actually perpetuate insomnia.
I noticed that cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) didn’t appear on your list of things you’ve tried. Was that an oversight, or is this something you’ve not tried yet? If you haven’t tried implementing CBT-I techniques yet, I’d encourage you to get started!
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
The content of this post is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, disorder, or medical condition. It should never replace any advice given to you by your physician or any other licensed healthcare provider. Insomnia Coach LLC offers coaching services only and does not provide therapy, counseling, medical advice, or medical treatment. All content is provided “as is” and without warranties, either express or implied.
Thanks for sharing your story. Can you tell us how you managed to stop your stress and anxiety? This is often easier said than done!
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
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Welcome to the forum, Sally. As I think you are recognizing, sleeping pills aren’t a long-term solution for insomnia because they don’t address the root cause of insomnia — thoughts and behaviors.
Did your doctor mention cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I)? Is this something you’ve heard of or tried?
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
The content of this post is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, disorder, or medical condition. It should never replace any advice given to you by your physician or any other licensed healthcare provider. Insomnia Coach LLC offers coaching services only and does not provide therapy, counseling, medical advice, or medical treatment. All content is provided “as is” and without warranties, either express or implied.
Setbacks are completely normal — nobody enjoys a great night of sleep, every single night! So, you certainly are NOT back to square one! You are doing the exact right thing — you are implementing the same techniques that you implemented in the past and proved to be helpful. They were helpful before, so they will be helpful again. Keep looking forward, not back, and your sleep will soon get back on track!
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
The content of this post is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, disorder, or medical condition. It should never replace any advice given to you by your physician or any other licensed healthcare provider. Insomnia Coach LLC offers coaching services only and does not provide therapy, counseling, medical advice, or medical treatment. All content is provided “as is” and without warranties, either express or implied.
Setbacks are completely normal — nobody enjoys a great night of sleep, every single night! So, you certainly are NOT back to square one! You are doing the exact right thing — you are implementing the same techniques that you implemented in the past and proved to be helpful. They were helpful before, so they will be helpful again. Keep looking forward, not back, and your sleep will soon get back on track!
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
The content of this post is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, disorder, or medical condition. It should never replace any advice given to you by your physician or any other licensed healthcare provider. Insomnia Coach LLC offers coaching services only and does not provide therapy, counseling, medical advice, or medical treatment. All content is provided “as is” and without warranties, either express or implied.
