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It’s definitely really difficult when we go without sleep for multiple nights in a row. No doubt about it. How have things been since you posted?
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It’s quite remarkable how functional we can be after nights of little sleep, isn’t it?
The good news is there’s no evidence chronic insomnia causes any health problem or any health condition — probably because the body will always generate, at the very least, the minimum amount of sleep it needs.
What can make things more difficult is effort — the more we try to make sleep happen, the more we try to get rid of wakefulness, the more we try to fight or avoid the difficult thoughts and feelings that often come with insomnia, the more difficult it all becomes.
I hope there’s something useful here.
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Hello Shalom and welcome to the forum — you are not alone! If you have any questions please feel free to post them here.
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I just wanted to chime in here to validate that worry about insomnia returning if you have another child. Yes, it might. And, it might not. That’s out of your control since sleep cannot be controlled 🙂
We can only control our actions and it’s our actions that determine whether we move toward the life we want to live or away from the life we want to live.
So, we are faced with a choice here. We can live a life trying to avoid difficult stuff (such as nighttime wakefulness, anxiety, worry, stress, fear, etc) — and this will likely involve us doing less of the things that matter to us and moving away from the life we want to live. And, the difficult stuff we’re trying to avoid will probably still show up from time to time anyway since it comes with being a human being.
Or, we can do things that matter, even if difficult stuff might show up and even in the presence of difficult stuff. This way, we are living the life we want to live and any difficult stuff that shows up is at least serving some kind of purpose!
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Welcome to the forum, Sophie — and congratulations on the little one!
It’s not too surprising that you haven’t found medication or sleep hygiene to be helpful long-term solutions since neither really tackle the problem of insomnia — the struggle we engage in to get rid of wakefulness (and the difficult thoughts and feelings that often come along for the ride) that often end up supplying insomnia with the oxygen it needs to survive.
Did you give my free insomnia sleep training course a try? How did you get on with it? Did you pick up any helpful or useful insights?
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Welcome to the forum, Mahi. It makes complete sense that you’re feeling anxious about your mom’s health — it might be more concerning if you didn’t experience any worry or anxiety in that situation!
Sometimes difficult thoughts and feelings remind us of things that are important to us — they contain important messages. With this in mind, they don’t necessarily need to be fought. We don’t necessarily need to fight or avoid what our mind is doing — and, sometimes, it’s the fight that makes things more difficult.
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The content of this post is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, disorder, or medical condition. It should never replace any advice given to you by your physician or any other licensed healthcare provider. Insomnia Coach LLC offers coaching services only and does not provide therapy, counseling, medical advice, or medical treatment. All content is provided “as is” and without warranties, either express or implied.
Welcome! Plenty of (hopefully relatable!) stories can be found in the Insomnia Coach podcast — and, of course, we’d love to hear your story whenever you feel ready to share it!
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
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Difficult thoughts and feelings all come from a good place — your mind doing its job of looking out for you! By themselves, they don’t guarantee that sleep won’t happen — but trying to fight or avoid your thoughts and feelings sure can make sleep (and living the life you want to live) a lot more difficult!
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
The content of this post is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, disorder, or medical condition. It should never replace any advice given to you by your physician or any other licensed healthcare provider. Insomnia Coach LLC offers coaching services only and does not provide therapy, counseling, medical advice, or medical treatment. All content is provided “as is” and without warranties, either express or implied.
I think one way we can let go is to move away from trying to fight or avoid all the difficult stuff that we cannot control — for example, nighttime wakefulness, our thoughts, our feelings.
Since we can’t control these things, the more we try to fight or avoid them, the more we struggle — and the struggle usually makes everything more difficult as all that stuff pushes back, consumes our energy, and distracts us from doing things that matter and from the world around us.
An alternative might involve acknowledging all this difficult stuff and allowing it to exist and to come and go as it chooses (even though you might wish it wasn’t present, there it is) — and continuing to engage in activities (no matter how small) that keep you moving toward the life you want to live, even in the presence of this difficult stuff.
You might also find it helpful to be a bit kinder to yourself. What you’re going through is hard — if your best friend or a loved family member was going through what you’re going through, what would you say to them? How would you treat them? Please consider talking to yourself and treating yourself with a similar level of kindness, too.
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
The content of this post is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, disorder, or medical condition. It should never replace any advice given to you by your physician or any other licensed healthcare provider. Insomnia Coach LLC offers coaching services only and does not provide therapy, counseling, medical advice, or medical treatment. All content is provided “as is” and without warranties, either express or implied.
Welcome to the forum! If you have any questions or wish to share any concerns (or insights!) please feel free to post them here!
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
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Thanks for sharing! It sounds as though you’ve discovered that you are capable of generating sleep without any kind of medication — an insight that will likely be helpful for some time to come!
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
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The world record for continuous wakefulness is 11 days — but that took someone immense effort and was extremely difficult to achieve. Most of us aren’t trying to stay awake so sleep usually happens a lot sooner than that!
Sleep always happens in the end, no matter what. You might find this video helpful: Even if you have chronic insomnia, sleep drive always wins — you can sleep and you will sleep!
Finally, not a single study has found that chronic insomnia increases the risk of death or causes any health problem.
I hope this helps.
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I wonder if this might be connected to hypnic jerks — something that can definitely make things difficult and yet tends not to respond well to our understandable efforts to fight or avoid them.
Have you discussed this with your doctor? If you’re given a clean bill of health, these symptoms might be connected to a heightened level of arousal.
You might find this YouTube video (and all the comments that come with it) helpful: Why you jerk yourself awake every time you try to fall asleep (and what to do about it).
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
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Can you describe that brain noise in a bit more detail for us, Ernie? And, how are you currently responding to the appearance of that brain noise? How helpful is that response proving to be?
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If you don’t think that driving would be safe, it’s important not to drive.
People with chronic insomnia rarely fall asleep without warning during the day — they’re typically “tired but wired” during the day rather than excessively sleepy. That’s why we don’t usually hear of people with chronic insomnia falling asleep behind the wheel during the day.
As you mentioned, it’s definitely harder to do things that matter when we are dealing with insomnia. What’s the alternative? The only possible alternative is to avoid doing things that matter, right?
In your experience, does that usually make things better? Do you feel as though that’s a workable approach? Only you know the answer to that since you are the expert on you!
We don’t need to change our thoughts (I am not sure that’s even possible) but sometimes changing our actions (something we can always control) is a more useful strategy!
I hope there’s something useful here.
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
The content of this post is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, disorder, or medical condition. It should never replace any advice given to you by your physician or any other licensed healthcare provider. Insomnia Coach LLC offers coaching services only and does not provide therapy, counseling, medical advice, or medical treatment. All content is provided “as is” and without warranties, either express or implied.
