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Perhaps it might be worth allowing yourself to stay in bed when you’re awake — especially if you feel comfortable in bed!
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It sounds as though your goal might be to control things that cannot be controlled (more sleep, less worry). For as long as that’s a goal — and an understandable one at that! —perhaps you might be setting yourself up for struggle?
To put it another way, how successful could you expect to be if your goal was to turn the moon into cheese? Might trying to achieve that goal end up setting you up for difficulty and, in turn, make it harder for you to live the kind of life you want to live?
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Sounds like you’ve got a clear plan in place that’s working for you, Bruce! And, that’s all that really matters!
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It sure sounds as though you are making progress as you continue to move toward the life you want to live, independently of sleep and even in the presence of the difficult thoughts and feelings that come with being a human being, Brad.
And, that progress is all down to you — your own commitment and your own actions.
Thank you so much for sharing!
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Great example, Brad — thanks for sharing!
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Yes, it can be hard to move away from a comfy chair and blanket! Thanks for sharing, Marie-C!
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Sorry to hear of the rough night.
What does your experience tells you happens when you try to combat/fight anxiety, worry, or any other difficult thoughts and feelings?
If your experience tells you that trying to combat/fight these difficult thoughts and feelings that are generated by your brain doing its job of looking out for you doesn’t permanently eliminate them, consumes a lot of energy and attention, and makes it harder for you to do things that matter to you, perhaps a different approach might be more workable?
A different approach might involve acknowledging your thoughts and feelings, making space for them to exist for as long as they choose to exist, being kind to yourself, and continuing to do things that keep you moving toward the life you want to live even when they’re present.
Do you feel there’s any possibility that your (understandable) attempts to fight or get rid of anxiety might be what’s causing so much of the struggle you are experiencing?
What might life be like if struggle wasn’t added on top of all this difficult stuff when it shows up?
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Fantastic stuff — it sure sounds as though you got a lot from practicing the AWAKE exercise in that situation, Spindledog! Good on you for getting in the practice with an open and curious mind!
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Thanks for sharing your experience, Spindledog! As a reminder, there’s no need to make yourself wide awake to do the AWAKE exercise — or to practice it only because you’re awake!
It’s an exercise you can practice if/when you find yourself struggling with wakefulness (and any thoughts and feelings that might accompany it).
There’s no need to feel obligated to practice it simply because you’re awake!
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Thanks for sharing. Did you find that approach helpful, compared to how you might have responded to those difficult thoughts and feelings in the past?
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Good question — in that case, you might want to go to bed only when you feel sleepy enough for sleep, while maintaining that out of bed time in the morning. So, that 10:00 PM (local time) is an earliest possible bedtime, rather than the time you must go to bed.
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Hiya Birdie!
I think some temporary disruption is a cost of traveling and doing things that matter — especially if we are crossing timezones!
What can sometimes be helpful is remaining awake until it’s around your usual bedtime in your new destination (in other words, if you usually go to bed around 10:00 PM at home then see if you can delay going to bed until 10:00 PM — local time — wherever you are in the world, too).
If you reach your destination at a time when you’d normally be sleeping, you might want to grab a bit of sleep and then try to get up at your normal time — or you can try to plough through until your normal bed time. The accumulated sleep drive will help create good conditions for sleep the following night and might help you adapt to the new timezone a bit quicker.
PS: There’s no charge for these answers (or for using the forum) — you shared some great questions that I am sure will benefit others who read this topic 🙂
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Great question — and Marie-C hit the nail on the head, Brad!
Sometimes, if we feel anxious for example, we might feel that in the pit of our stomach. If we feel sad, we might feel that in our heart (it might ache). If we feel stress, we might feel that as tightness in our shoulders, neck, or head.
If you’re not feeling the thoughts and feelings you’re identifying anywhere in your body, that’s OK. You’re just scanning your body to see if they’re present, with an open and curious mind.
Does this help?
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What might you be able to do instead of napping, Marie-C? Is there any opportunity to get outside or engage in some movement?
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It sounds as though you’ve picked up some insights, there! The process of exploring values has taught you more about yourself and made you question whether some of the things you do are truly important, or borne out of habit. And, perhaps you have also discovered some more “good stuff” that could be added to your life, or developed further? Thanks for sharing!
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