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Welcome to the forum, Rich! What time do you normally go to bed at night and what time do you usually get out of bed to start your day in the morning? When you wake at night, why do you think you find it hard to fall back to sleep?
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It sounds as though you’re putting in a lot of effort to make sleep happen/avoid nighttime wakefulness. This, in itself, might be the reason why you are continuing to struggle.
The sleep window cannot make sleep happen, just as stimulus control cannot make sleep happen. These techniques simply help reduce the amount of time available for nighttime wakefulness and give you the opportunity to make any periods of unpleasant wakefulness more pleasant by doing something more enjoyable compared to staying in bed when being in bed doesn’t feel good, respectively.
I wonder if all this effort might be better invested in training your brain that wakefulness isn’t a threat or a danger — something that needs to be avoided at all costs? If you can get to that stage, sleep becomes truly effortless — because there’s no more trying.
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Unfortunately, I’m not an expert when it comes to dealing with hot flashes caused by medication. Correct me if I am wrong, but I would imagine that you have no control over these hot flashes — in which case, they might have a similar effect on sleep as hypnic jerks.
When things affect us in a negative way it makes sense that we want to fix that problem. Sometimes we can do just that (if that thing is in our control). Unfortunately, sometimes it might not be in our control — and it sounds like this might be the case with the hot flashes.
If we, quite understandably, expend a lot of effort trying to avoid/fight things that are out of our control, we can be more likely to get hooked by those challenges and end up moving away from the kind of life we want to live.
In my experience, what can be helpful when faced with challenges out of our control is to actually acknowledge these challenges and to even make a bit of space for them to exist. While doing that, if we can continue to engage in actions that are aligned with our values and help us continue moving toward the kind of life we want to live, these challenges might have a bit less of an influence over us.
I hope there’s something useful here.
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Unfortunately, we can’t put the mind to sleep and the more we try to control what goes on in our mind, the more the mind pushes back and the more we get tangled up in the struggle.
Thoughts don’t stop us from sleeping — but battling with them can make sleep a lot more difficult!
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Thanks for the great question!
If your goal is to become more skilled in relaxation and being present, then progressive muscle relaxation can be helpful.
If your intention is to create sleep/sleepiness, then progressive muscle relaxation will never “work”. That’s because we cannot control sleep — and for as long as we try to do so, we will remain caught up in the struggle.
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I love it! I’m so encouraged by your reply, BZ — it definitely sounds like you’re on the right path!
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CBD oil doesn’t address the thought processes and behaviors that perpetuate sleep disruption, so it’s not an effective long-term solution for chronic insomnia.
If you read the insomnia success stories in the forum and on the Insomnia Coach Podcast you’ll find a common trait among those who have put insomnia behind them — they no longer put effort into trying to sleep and they are able to accept that sleep (and nighttime wakefulness) is out of their control.
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Fatigue is definitely uncomfortable — there can be no argument there! How do you normally respond to that fatigue?
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There are two possible explanations here:
1. You experienced a difficult night because of the energy drink
2. You experienced a difficult night because you thought the energy drink was to blame for the nighttime wakefulness you were experiencingThat’s all there really is to it.
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Quitting medication would be a question for your doctor. What I can say is that all the sleep you’ve been getting (even after taking Ambien) is sleep that you have generated by yourself. No pill can generate sleep.
A pill can generate sedation and when we take a pill we might allow ourselves to put less effort into trying to sleep (because we delegated that task to the pill). Consequently, we can easily believe that the sleep that then occurred was created by whatever we took.
However, every single human being will sleep — pill or not — once they have been awake for long enough.
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Do you feel as though you might be putting effort into falling back to sleep when you wake during the night or otherwise putting pressure on yourself to fall back to sleep?
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It’s good to hear that you are feeling happier with your sleep! Your desire to experience ongoing improvement is completely logical and understandable — at the same time, though, your might be training your brain to believe that nighttime wakefulness is a threat (because you are so keen to avoid it). This, in turn, can keep us tangled in a bit of a struggle with sleep.
Ultimately, sleep happens best when we no longer try to avoid wakefulness and we no longer to try control sleep! If we can eliminate that desire, that’s when true magic can happen!
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What kind of things have you both done to stop thinking about insomnia throughout the day? How effective have those techniques been? Have they come with any cost in terms of effort and/or missing out on things that are important to you?
If I tell you not to think about a pink elephant for the rest of the day could you do that — or did you already fail and think of a pink elephant?
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Welcome to the forum. If I could wave a magic wand and eliminate your insomnia, what kind of things would you be doing, that you are not doing at the current time?
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You’ve shared some big insights there, BZ!
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