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Welcome to the forum, Big zee! As you are now recognizing, sleeping pills aren’t a long-term solution for insomnia because they don’t address the thoughts and behaviors that perpetuate insomnia.
Have you looked into (or tried) cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) techniques? These can be really helpful over the long term because they do address the root cause of insomnia.
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Welcome to the forum! Can you tell us a bit more about your sleep at the current time? How are you struggling and what are your goals?
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Some great insight here — isn’t it amazing how “the time” can completely dominate modern life? I remember when I lived on the coast and was able to surf relatively frequently — I often found myself sitting in the ocean atop my surfboard wondering what the time was, even though I had nowhere to be and nowhere to go!
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
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Welcome to the forum! Did you mean to say that you are going to bed at 11:00 PM and getting up at 8:00 AM, or are you really going to bed at 11:00 AM (in the morning) and then getting out of bed at 8:00 PM (in the evening)?
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
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Meditations can be a great way to relax — and if difficulty relaxing is contributing to sleep difficulties, meditation can definitely be helpful! Glad to hear you’re finding some success with it!
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Welcome to the forum, DMA. You definitely are NOT alone! You mentioned that you have tried everything — have you tried cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I)?
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
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I’m so glad to hear how well you’ve been doing! That shock of alertness could be a hypnic jerk (in which case it might be a sign that sleep is trying to occur!) or it could simply be a symptom of heightened arousal (or both!).
I think that re-implementing sleep restriction might be helpful if you find yourself spending a lot of time awake during the night. If it starts to feel unpleasant to be in bed that can also be a good cue to get out of bed to do something relaxing and somewhat enjoyable until you feel calm and relaxed again. This can help prevent you from associating the bed with unpleasant wakefulness.
I hope this helps — how have you been getting on since you posted?
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As you suggested, if you don’t do anything to address the reason why it seems to be hard for you to fall back to sleep when you wake during the night, it is entirely possible that as soon as you stop taking the medication the issue could return.
Are you still implementing sleep restriction? When you wake during the night, why do you think it’s so difficult to fall back to sleep?
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Welcome to the forum! The focus of this website is chronic insomnia rather than sleep apnea so I can’t offer you too much guidance on this. Have you discussed your difficulties with your sleep doctor or CPAP provider? It might be worth trialing a few different masks so you might find one that feels more comfortable. There are lots of different options and it can be well worth the effort to find something that works for you.
I’d also recommend this resource from the American Sleep Apnea Association.
I hope this helps.
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So glad to hear you’re still doing well, Daf! Thanks for the update!
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Worries often disrupt sleep since they activate the arousal system and this can temporarily override sleep drive since the brain can’t distinguish between a real physical threat (something that would make falling asleep dangerous) and an emotional threat (worry).
I hope this helps!
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
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It’s not uncommon for sleep to temporarily get worse when you begin implementing CBT-I techniques — and that’s largely down to the new routines and ways of thinking that are involved. If you stay consistent though, things usually improve!
Although worry about not being able to control your thoughts is understandable, I think it’s helpful to recognize that controlling thoughts is very difficult (perhaps even impossible) so trying to do this is rarely helpful! Trying to control thoughts is a bit like trying to control the movement of clouds in the sky or trying to stop the flow of a river with your bare hands!
Instead, it can be more helpful to recognize thoughts for what they are — thoughts. Thoughts are just thoughts. Strings of words. They can be true. They can be false. They certainly aren’t facts!
When we become worried about the idea of having thoughts, this can generate anxiety rather than the actual content of the thoughts. For this reason, sometimes it can be helpful to take time during the day to welcome all these thoughts into your mind. Give yourself 15 minutes of time during the day to worry all you want! The more often you do this, the less inclined you might be to worry about these thoughts at night.
It can also be helpful to evaluate the accuracy of the thoughts that tend to create worry and anxiety. If you do this, you might see that the thoughts themselves aren’t even particularly accurate.
I hope this helps.
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
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How are you getting on since you posted? It can be helpful to recognize that you can sleep (it’s impossible to get absolutely no sleep for an entire month) — but that you aren’t happy with the amount of sleep you are getting.
I am encouraged that you are trying to implement CBT-I techniques — which specific techniques are you implementing and how are they working out for you?
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This is very common among people with chronic insomnia! What do you think you might be able to do during the day that might help distract your mind from thinking about sleep, add positive moments to your day, and help you recognize that perhaps you have more control over the quality of your days than how you slept the previous night?
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
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Nobody here can really answer those questions for you — if your current doctor is concerned about dependence, they’ll likely discuss an elimination or tapering-off plan with you. How are you getting on since you posted?
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
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