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What do you currently do when you wake during the night? Did the Shuti course give you techniques to use for these nighttime awakenings? Are you still practicing them?
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My first suggestions would be to make sure you are allotting an appropriate amount of time for sleep. Getting out of bed when you can’t sleep also helps increase sleep pressure (and helps associate the bed with sleep rather than wakefulness). Do you nap during the day?
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Welcome to the forum, Gary. When you wake during the night, what do you think is stopping you from falling back to sleep?
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That’s a good mantra to practice — simply because we can’t control sleep. Trying to sleep and/or worrying about sleep never improves sleep (in fact, it usually leads to worse sleep). So, accepting each night as a fresh start and simply seeing what happens can help take the pressure off and increase the likelihood of sleep.
Let us know how you get on, Anne!
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A few suggestions when it comes to addressing middle of the night insomnia:
* Make sure you are scheduling an appropriate amount of time for sleep (allotting too much time for sleep increases the amount of time spent awake during the night)
* Make sure you get out of bed when you can’t sleep
* Don’t do anything to reduce sleep pressure (for example, going to bed earlier than normal, staying in bed later than normal, napping during the day)
* Practice relaxation techniques
None of the above techniques work immediately. They may take weeks of consistent practice before you notice significant improvements in your sleep.
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Hello Davy and welcome to the forum. Everyone here knows what you are going through, and we’re all here to support you. It’s little wonder that you are struggling to sleep when you equate sleep problems with losing your house — that would keep anyone up at night.
You mention that you have tried all different types of drugs. When you spoke to your doctor did they mention cognitive behavioral treatment for insomnia (CBT-I)? What do you think is stopping you from sleeping through the night?
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Wow, 15 years of taking antidepressants is a very long time. The fact you managed to wean yourself off them must have been a huge challenge and the fact you managed it is quite an accomplishment. Congratulations!
It’s very unlikely that your body isn’t making melatonin. It’s far more likely that your arousal system (also known as the ‘fight or flight system’) is overpowering your sleep system and making sleep difficult. The arousal system is easily activated — usually as soon as we worry about sleep, try to sleep, or during times of stress or anxiety.
You mentioned that you tried a CBT course and it didn’t work for you. What course did you try, and why do you think it wasn’t effective? Was there any particular technique that you felt wasn’t helpful?
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Hello Gwen. How much sleep do you think you get on a typical night? Has your husband told you that you snore during the night?
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When it comes to sleep/wake times, the time you get up in the morning should be the one time that stays absolutely consistent. That’s because, even after you have a sleep window with a set start time and end time, the start of your sleep window is the earliest time at which you can go to bed. So, if your sleep window starts but you don’t feel sleepy, it’s best not to go to sleep until you do feel sleepy. As a result, there may be some variation in when you go to bed.
In your case, since you want to be out of bed at 6.30am, you should count back from there. Of course, this then leads you to the issue you described with your husband making sleep difficult. Unfortunately, CBT-I cannot prevent sleep interruptions caused by your husband snoring!
Has your husband spoken to his doctor about his snoring? Have you tried earplugs or other strategies to minimize the noise that disrupts your sleep?
Finally, it’s important to note that rest and deep relaxation are not the same as sleep. When we stay in bed for longer than appropriate to get more rest and/or relaxation, we will almost always simply spend more time awake in bed. This creates an association (or strengthens the association) between the bed and wakefulness (rather than sleep) and gives us more opportunity to be awake in bed worrying about sleep and feeling frustrated about being unable to sleep. All these consequences disrupt sleep and override any potential benefits associated with staying in bed.
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Well, the good news is that the most effective treatment (CBT-I) isn’t a medication.
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Sleep restriction would involve allotting no more than 5.5 hours for sleep if you typically get 5 hours of sleep (or fewer) on an average night. Otherwise, simply add half an hour to your average nightly sleep duration.
Stimulus control involves getting out of bed for half an hour if unable to sleep after about half an hour.
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Hello Theresa. I just thought I’d link to this article I wrote about sleep issues related to traumatic brain injury. You may find it helpful:
https://www.healthcentral.com/article/how-and-why-traumatic-brain-injury-harms-sleep
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Hello Belle and welcome to the forum. What is a typical night like for you? When do you go to bed, when do you get out of bed, and roughly how many hours of sleep do you get at night?
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As you correctly said, sleep is a natural function of the body — and your ability to sleep never goes away. I can’t imagine how tough it must be to be taking sleeping pills for 10 years. Sleeping pills are only ever recommended for short-term use, so I am disappointed to hear that this is the only solution you have been offered by your doctor.
Have you asked your doctor about cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia? It’s consistently proven as the best treatment option for insomnia — and it’s recommended as the first-line treatment for insomnia by professional organizations such as The National Institutes of Health, The American College of Physicians, The American Academy of Sleep Medicine, and The British Association for Psychopharmacology.
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Here’s the thing, Jilly — yes, if you stay in bed for longer you might get an extra hour or so of broken sleep. How often does this happen, though?
Let’s say your average sleep duration is five hours. So, your sleep ‘capability’ is five hours. Let’s say you decide to spend seven hours in bed in a bid to get more sleep. For argument’s sake, let’s say that a third of the time you will get a bit more sleep, a third of the time you might get a bit of rest, and a third of the time you will be lying awake, worried and frustrated about being unable to sleep.
By staying in bed for this extra hour, you are trading in a 30% success rate with a 70% failure rate. Does this sound like a good bet?!
The more time you spend in bed awake (rather than asleep), the more you train your mind that the bed is a place for wakefulness rather than sleep. In addition, the more time you spend in bed awake, the more time you spend worrying about sleep — and this makes sleep more difficult.
Sleep restriction is very difficult to commit to, but it only works with commitment. It normally takes a couple of weeks of absolute consistency before sleep begins to improve, and sleep restriction is best paired with stimulus control for the best results.
Sleep restriction and stimulus control are very hard over the short-term — and that’s precisely why sleeping pills are so popular.
—If you are ready to stop struggling with insomnia you can enroll in the online insomnia coaching course right now! If you would prefer ongoing phone or video coaching calls as part of a powerful three month program that will help you reclaim your life from insomnia, consider applying for the Insomnia Mastery program.
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