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I was merely the guide — you did all the work!
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I appreciate your kind words and thank you for letting me know you found this helpful!
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Great! What do you think you’ll do to help make unpleasant nighttime wakefulness more pleasant?
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All you need is something to do that’s more appealing/enjoyable than staying in bed when being in bed doesn’t feel good. That’s your only goal since no activity can generate sleep or sleepiness! Does this help?
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Things certainly sounds really difficult for you at the moment, Faiza. My thoughts are with you.
Although it can feel as though you aren’t able to function, the fact you were able to find this forum, register, and make a post shows that you are still capable of doing things.
With this in mind, I wonder if there might be a few things you can do when awake (or even just a single thing) that may help you move toward the kind of life you want to live even in the presence of all this struggle? Things that are important to you, things that you find rewarding or that are otherwise aligned with your values?
I wonder if that might be helpful, even if only a little bit?
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Thoughts and feelings don’t stop sleep from happening — but trying to fight or avoid them sure can! I don’t know of anyone who fell asleep when engaged in a battle — and that’s just what we are doing when we start fighting with what’s going on in our minds!
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Welcome to the forum, umbra! You aren’t alone and there’s nothing unusual in your experience.
That tossing and turning doesn’t sound pleasant — I wonder if it might be a bit kinder to yourself to do something more appealing when you’re awake (and that wakefulness doesn’t feel good) instead of tossing and turning for hours?
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Yikes, that’s not a great message to hear — that you’ll be doomed to sleep issues for the rest of your life. I don’t know of any clinical evidence to support such a claim!
Ultimately, insomnia exists for as long as we “try” to sleep, for as long as we “try” to avoid wakefulness, and for as long as we “try” to fight or avoid all the difficult thoughts, feelings, and emotions that like to come along for the ride.
That’s because we cannot control any of these things. The more we try, the more we struggle. And, that struggle is usually exhausting and can lead us away from living the kind of life we want to live.
An alternative approach is to move away from that natural desire to control the difficult stuff we can’t control. To allow it to exist, and then use all the spare energy we have freed up to do things that help us move toward the kind of life we want to live.
When we are doing things that help us move toward the kind of life we want to live — even in the presence of all the difficult stuff — the difficult stuff might start to have less of an influence over us.
If we can drop the struggle and the attempts to control what cannot be controlled, we might start to do a bit better.
I hope there’s something helpful here.
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Welcome to the forum — you’ve got this!
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Waking is a normal part of sleep and is completely out of your control!
I’d suggest adjusting your sleep window whenever you feel ready to do so and however you feel might be most appropriate for you. The sleep window can’t generate sleep, it simply prevents you from chasing after sleep.
Sleep efficiency isn’t a representation of the quality of your life — what you do when awake is what determines the kind of life you live!
You might want to make the hour before the sleep window begins the last time you check the time and then simply allow yourself to go to bed whenever you feel sleepy enough for sleep.
When you travel, I’d suggest keeping things the same if that’s workable for you. So whatever your sleep window is at home, keep it the same (destination time) when you are away. So, 12:00 AM to 6:30 AM stays as 12:00 AM to 6:30 AM — it doesn’t become 2:00 AM to 8:30 AM.
There will likely be some sleep disruption when you cross timezones — and that’s normal and to be expected. What’s more important is the fact you’re living the kind of life you want to live, even when difficult nights happen and even when you experience some of the difficult thoughts and feelings that usually come along for the ride.
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I really appreciate the update — thanks for that! I’m a big fan of the DARE book!
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I don’t think we can stop worry, at least not over the long term — and we probably don’t want to, since the mind worries because it’s trying its best to look out for us.
Sometimes the worry generated by the mind is helpful and sometimes it’s not. So, when we experience worry, instead of trying to fight that, it might be more helpful to take a breath and ask yourself if that worry or thought is helpful. If it is, great — take action (if you have control over the source of that worry)! If it’s not helpful (or you don’t have control over the source of that worry), maybe you just thank your brain for looking out for you and then refocus your attention on where you are and what you are doing.
Of course, your brain will probably cycle through this over and over — and yet, that’s OK because you can respond in the same way over and over. Take a pause, decide how to respond, then take action!
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Your experience just sounds like typical insomnia — nothing unusual here! I wonder if there might still be some desire here, and that might be the final obstacle?
It can also be helpful to recognize that waking during the night is a normal part of sleep. It’s only when we try to avoid this, or otherwise put effort into sleep or put pressure on ourselves to sleep that we tend to find it hard to fall back to sleep.
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I think that can definitely be helpful — without anxiety I doubt insomnia can really exist! With that being said, I don’t think it’s anxiety itself that disrupts sleep — I think it’s our battle with it.
Because anxiety doesn’t feel good, we usually try to fight or avoid it. Those attempts to fight or avoid anxiety get us tangled up in an endless (and exhausting!) battle and that’s what I think truly makes sleep more difficult.
So, if we can work on allowing anxiety to exist — to make some space for it — and continue to engage in activities that help us live the kind of life we want to live, anxiety might have less of an influence over our lives (and our sleep).
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Waking is a normal part of sleep. What can make falling back to sleep more difficult is our desire to avoid nighttime wakefulness — because then we might be tempted to put effort into falling back to sleep or put pressure on ourselves to fall back to sleep.
Since wakefulness is a normal part of sleep I think it can be helpful to remind yourself of that when you wake. It can also be helpful not to check the time — because that can set off a big struggle with sleep. Finally, it might be helpful to simply remain in bed when awake, for as long as that wakefulness feels comfortable.
If your body wants to generate more sleep and if conditions are right for more sleep to happen, more sleep will happen.
I hope this helps!
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